this summer me and a buddy went from Pa. up into canada for 5 days. We got to niagra falls crossing at about 11:45 p.m., gaurde asks the typical 5 questions, where you from, where you going, how long you staying, you have drugs or weapons, No Sir, ok have a good day ( about 50 seconds transpired). Coming back into U.S. is another story, I wasnt stripped searched or had bags taken apart but these two guys were not ones to joke with. My buddy was about 50ft behind me with his bike and travel bags, they asked us seperatly how we knew each other, where we went, what we did ect. If your reading this and your one of those guards, Keep up the good work and I wish our politicians would only do half as good a job.
As far as the dress code, I am a Union guy and we have more rights at times. But I would hang in there, at 15yrs I would assume you have more vacation time than starting over. Alot of managers have turned most professions into just a job. I would take before and after pictures of your self, turn in the reciepts for the hair cut and the shaving supplies and tell the H.R. man that you were told you had to do it.