My wife is not exactly into Motorcycles, but he likes to ride with me. We have had the discussion about not asking me to give up something I that much. That was as we were riding the back roads, then we hit some gray chad gravel and went down on my honda VTX 1800. she tried to grab me instead of rolling out to grass and lost a chunk of her knee cap. She was in the hospital for 3 days and is fine with riding now. She does grab me pretty tight when she sees gravel.
06 FLHTCUI Ultra Classic
88 inch, Stage 1, cheap-o slipons
Other than that is very stock.