thanks to all who offered... I do love this sport as the people are involved in it for the sport of are very kind. I did make it home. Went to NAPA auto grabbed a charger threw it on over night tossed the battery in the next morning (sunday) and Burned gas. I had as stated prior disconnected the lights and made the 360 miles back (the ol' girl came thru)
I however am going to repost about the issue and see if anyone had some ideas / short cuts or advice on pulling the stator or alternator and replacing. I had smoke blowing out of the case and if you looked in to it it glowed like a hot cigarette.
of course the plug was melted and the connectors that stick into the case from the regulator were melded welded or whatever in there so no luck on the splice and crimp idea as I have that stuff in my tool bag. The hardest part of it was the pushing my bike over the Baker Blvd exit as it is up hill and bikes would just go by me and let me push my refrigerator up the cat walk myself. So I did my thighs and calfs as I have skipping those in the Gym anyways.
But it would have been nice to have a couple of you stop and help me push it up the hill of 400 yrds and I coasted down to a nice mechanic who only charged me 20 bucks to plug my battery in to his charger (after talking him into the fact his charger would work for me)
To LEO if you are out there ???? The tow truck never came!! G.D, it and BAM was as helpful as calling my Girlfriend hahaha!

All in all I was very Lucky for Vegas Bike Week 2009 I limped in 110 miles out and limped back 360 miles and had a great time out there as far as Jackpots and Woman and Partying goes.....the rest I wasted.
Oh I bump started it twice and when I got home and tried to start it nothing but clickty click click of a drained battery.
To Dan thanks for offering you're new battery to me to take with me across the desert So cool and kind. To Ac thanks for the offer but I was burning gas when you wrote this. Thanks the same Sorry I did not reply my cell did not notify me of your post or there is a lag?